How To Stop Envying Others And Be Happy

Stop envying others and be happy. Stop wishing for something that someone else has. You may harm yourself if you keep doing so. You may waste a lot of energy to fuss with someone else's achievement. While others have already gone to the top, you are going no where just ruining your chances of winning your own life competition.

Life is too short to lead it with hatred. Time flies so fast that you realize you haven't done much in life and left behind. If you can't stop envying others you really don't want to make yourself happy. If your life ends in a terrible ending, that's too bad. So how to stop your jealousy?

Just think about the negative effect you may have in life, like if you envy others:

1. You really want to outdo him or her and you use all tricks for this. If the competition is too hard, you will get nothing but only distressed

2. As you cannot be pleased with your condition now, you start to hate him or her and the hatred will grow bigger and bigger and without you realize you will start to suffer a mental disease as well as physical one

3. You cannot stop the mental disease from spreading all over your body and so that you become the only person to keep off from the one you envy with, and you enjoy if it is not you to break the ice of the silence when being with him or her.

4. You invite others to join your "club" and support anybody who also envy your rival and enjoy talking behind his or her back. It is worsened if you tend to be a slanderer or an agitator.

5. If the envy has already governed you, and you lose your common sense, it is feared that you will use all the way of getting rid of your rival including use black magic. Sounds silly? In developing countries this practice has been going on up to now.

So, now you got the point of why you should not envy others, right? Think about the consequence as written above, that will urge you to stop your jealousy. Just be happy by being yourself and thanks God for everything He's given you. Be sincere, be friendly and lead a blessing life.

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"Happy" Banner Ads To Improve Your Business?

Which one in your opinion is effective: happy or funny banner ads for business? If you think either or both are great, just go on. Promote and have a lot of campaigns with them. Even if you think you are a serious person and deal also with all serious things in life, you need "entertainment", maybe not for you personally but for your market.

It is weird, perhaps to call a serious banner ad, a funny one or whatever as a happy banner.We're not talking about a unique performance of advertisement which will appear more attractive than a funny one no matter what the reasons are. It's about the word happy here. Is it really weird? Not really, men like uniqueness, sure they do. Anything tickling your fancy that's unique, and therefore, there's nothing wrong by using amusing image to attract attention.

Humor, that is the point to be stressed here besides unque. Just keep in mind that what you need here is only a piece of sense of humor as a lead to a targeted object and that can be happy faces. It depends on each person's perception to regard something as funny banner ad.

You know why you should create one? To make sure you are serious! It's not funny if the banner ad created without any missions at all, but only dull jokes. What do you think? Have a happy banner and be happy with business!

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Go To Bali And Be Happy

Have of you heard of Bali, the Island of Gods? Go to Bali and be happy. It is located in Indonesia, South-East Asia. First prepare your budget and get ready.

Not only can you find beautiful nature here, but also spirituality. So, You're not happy now due to broken hearted or betrayal and so on? Have fun in Bali with the rituals which have been lasting for ages, to thrill you in many kinds, from religious ceremony to cultural heritage. Hinduism, the predominant religion here, gives you some traditional sense of spiritualism.

You may have fun going to the beach and swim or dive and so on. Happiness shower you in the heat of the sun. And then you may explore more places, by chance, to see the gods of hinduism placed everywhere throughout the island. And remember, besides such feeling of being happy, respect, that is what you should bring along here in order that your trip to Bali and home is secured.

There are many world famous people and celebrities besides the domestic ones have come to Bali to spend their holidays here. The island of gods is really attractive, and can you imagine, even a well-known actor like Julia Roberts needs to come here just to eat, pray and love. Lol.

Welcome happy soul, you may learn how to dance too in the island of gods. To some, Balinese dance is unique, to others it is sacred and mystical.

Well, wish you happiness!

This article was taken and rewritten from Bali Celebrity--part of this blog also, see the related blog

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Be Happy Even If You Are Broke

When you are broke it doesn't mean you're not happy. Is that correct? Okay, admit it, we're sad. And the title above is just easier said than done, right?

To tell you the truth, while I'm writing this, I can say I'm not happy as, again, this month, I fail to make end meets. I am somewhat a failed breadwinner. It's in the middle of the month, and I am starting to do the most thing that I hate in life, that is borrowing money from relatives, neighbors and coworkers. My wife likes to do so and since I married her, I have already piled up a sum of debts so far. That's normal in family life, especially those living in developing countries like me.

So what's the point here that you may say you are free from pressure? What makes you think that with a lot of debts you should be happy? You're broke, and that cannot be replaced by word fortune, can it?

Really? It seems like we miss something here.

First, there's a positive point of view to be outlined here, that, while we're broke we can still breath, and think and decide, and therefore we can do something to survive. This is challenge. The energy of having insufficient belonging can trigger our spirit to do something which consequently creates nothing to something. We may be not focusing on how to be happy while we're broke. But we are automatically in good condition that what we've been doing leads us to a happy step of life, be it called struggle, effort, pursuit and so on.

Second, being a tough guy, being a strong person, being an exception in a difficult situation, this kind of test will let our eyes open that happiness doesn't belong to pleasure seekers only, but to whom doing things to improve their life.

You think you're not happy with that? Just be in my position and feel it, if you give up and you say that is happiness. We know the rule: someone is happy when has done his best. 

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Link To Jokes To Make You Happy

Below is a link to jokes to make you happy, in case you are in debt, broken hearted or taken ill. Hope you can get recovered soon and get back to your lovely routine.

First, take a look at the silly entry: No Jokes Today. All jokes have already been wrapped up and packed and stored to be used as main menu later at night when having dinner with guests. But guests want more. It's more than beefsteak. So jokes are not necessarily spread today. No problem for tomorrows as they never die. You can tell funny things to your guests.

If you are not happy, come back here, find more links to happiness provided for you for free soon. Stay tune.

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Are You Happy By Reading Quotes?

Quotes of happiness belonging to famous people. Are they a sort of inspiration for you in order to be happy? But, wait, how about a little humor?

“One of the keys to happiness is a bad memory.”  ― Rita Mae Brown. Sure, this is applied to corruptors who prefer the saying let's bygones be bygones to standing the trial.

“Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of life, the whole aim and end of human existence.” ― Aristotle. It's better to stay that way rather than we change the latter sentence into ... how to end human existence.(by dictatorship)

“I think happiness is what makes you pretty. Period. Happy people are beautiful. They become like a mirror and they reflect that happiness.”  ― Drew Barrymore. Now, you know why a mirror prefers to answer the question, "mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the pretiest girl on earth."

“We all live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all different and yet the same.” ― Anne Frank. One thing for sure, don't ever say this at the zoo.

A bit humor above, we wish you more happiness!

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How To Be Happy In Life?

How to be happy in life, to some it's an easy and simple question, but to others, quite often the answers don't seem to lead to stress-free condition. What are the answers? Probably:

1. If you have a lot of money problem's solved. You can buy anything you want. You can go anywhere you like. You can live in as many as different places as you wish. But, unfortunately money can't buy anything, including happiness. You would like to be happy in life with it, but instead you are killed by it. So many stories we have heard of the frustrated rich who found the best solution to their problem was commiting suicide.

2. If you a man, beautiful women are more than happiness and they are everything for you, and vice versa. You want a lot of dates. Life is once, so that you need to outdo Tiger Woods in order to satisfy your desire. This how-to-be-happy in life version only creates a temporary heaven for you which mostly leaves you with STD's problem or even AIDS or the same bitter end as mentioned above.

3. Power is everything. Your main ambition needs to be pursued that is to be the greatest leader, and if you think this the best way of how to be happy in life, you will be probably turning to be half God. You'll maintain your power the rest of your life as you hard as you can, keep more and more image buildings and belittle others. There's no happiness with your insecured position, therefore.

So how to be happy in life? Should we skip the three points mentioned above? Off course, not. Not really. They are part of happiness. The basic way of making it happen is that you need balance. You need to be the master of everything you want in life to create happiness, don't let yourself governed by them. The components you need to support and control them are: rule, norm, value or religious teaching. However, now your homework is, before you argue with, "whether I am religious or no", you should find what a religions is. Which is the correct one? Having different opinion? Not happy with it, instead? Please give comment below. Thanks

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